There is a particular kind of frustration that comes from making a business decision, feeling reasonably certain about it and then finding yourself questioning the whole thing again three weeks later.
You decide which offer you want to focus on.
Then you wonder whether you chose the wrong one.
You settle on your positioning.
Then somebody says something that makes you rethink it.
You decide how you want to market your business.
Then you see somebody else succeeding with a completely different approach and start wondering whether you should be doing that instead.
Eventually, you are not only questioning the decision. You are questioning your ability to make good decisions at all.
For business owners, this can become expensive.
Not necessarily because any individual change is disastrous, but because repeatedly reopening decisions takes time, attention and energy. Sometimes it costs actual money too. New websites, new branding, new systems, new offers, new programmes, new strategies.
And six months later, you can find yourself facing a slightly different version of the same question.
Changing your mind is not automatically a problem
Businesses change.
You learn things. Your circumstances change. Customers behave differently from the way you expected. An offer does not sell. Something you thought you would enjoy turns out to be unbearable to deliver.
Changing your mind in response to useful information is sensible.
I would be far more concerned about a business owner stubbornly sticking to a bad decision simply because they had already made it.
The difficulty is recognising when you have genuinely received new information and when you have simply become uncomfortable with the decision you made.
Those can feel remarkably similar from the inside.
A decision can be right and still feel uncomfortable.
You might have to give something time to work. You might disappoint somebody. You might have to say no to an opportunity that looks good. You might have to tolerate a period where you cannot yet see whether your decision will pay off.
If uncertainty automatically sends you back to the drawing board, nothing gets enough time to tell you whether it was working.
Sometimes you are changing the wrong thing
This is something I find particularly interesting in business.
A person can correctly identify that something feels wrong and incorrectly identify what is wrong.
Perhaps you think you need to get rid of an offer because delivering it exhausts you.
But is the offer the problem?
Maybe the work itself suits you perfectly well, while the delivery model requires too much access to you.
Perhaps you decide your marketing is not working because you hate maintaining it.
But is the strategy ineffective, or have you chosen a version of that strategy that requires a level of output you cannot realistically sustain?
Perhaps you think you need an entirely new business direction because the current one has become difficult.
But does the direction need changing, or does the structure around it?
These are different business problems, and they require different decisions.
Throwing out the whole thing every time one part stops working can mean repeatedly losing things that were perfectly viable.
Other people’s certainty can make your own decisions wobble
Running a business gives you access to an extraordinary number of opinions about how you should run a business.
Post every day.
Don’t post every day.
Build a personal brand.
Build a business that doesn’t depend on you.
Niche down.
Don’t box yourself in.
Sell one signature offer.
Create an offer ladder.
Raise your prices.
Create something accessible.
Scale.
Simplify.
The problem is not that all of this advice is bad. Much of it can work.
The problem is that contradictory advice can all be perfectly valid in different businesses.
If you have not developed a reliable way of evaluating advice, every convincing person you encounter gets a temporary vote in your business.
You can make a decision on Monday and feel perfectly happy with it until Wednesday, when somebody explains why they would have done the opposite.
Now the decision is open again.
This is where I find Human Design useful
Human Design gives me another way of examining what is happening underneath a business decision.
I am not interested in using a chart to dictate what somebody should do.
I am interested in whether it helps explain the pattern around the decision.
Your Authority, for example, can tell us something about the process through which you are designed to reach decisions. Other parts of the chart can add useful information about energy, pressure, conditioning, communication and the ways you may be influenced by your environment or other people.
But I still want the business context.
If you tell me you keep changing your mind about an offer, I do not want to look at your chart and announce whether you should keep it.
I want to know what keeps making you reconsider it.
What happens immediately before the doubt appears?
Has anything materially changed?
What evidence do you have?
What part of the offer is causing the problem?
What would happen if you kept it?
What would happen if you stopped it?
What are you responding to?
The Human Design information becomes much more useful when we put it alongside those questions.
Your Authority cannot make the business decision for you
This is worth saying because Human Design can become another source of second-guessing if you use it badly.
You can start wondering whether every decision was “correct.”
Did I follow my Authority properly?
Was that really my intuition?
Should I wait longer?
Did I respond or initiate?
Am I making this decision from conditioning?
Suddenly, a system that was supposed to help you make decisions has given you another twenty reasons to distrust yourself.
I don’t think that is useful.
Your Authority gives you information about your decision-making process. It does not conduct market research, calculate your profit margin or tell you whether customers want what you are selling.
You still have a brain. Please bring it to the meeting.
Human Design should add information to your decision-making, not turn you into somebody who is frightened to choose a sandwich without consulting a bodygraph.
Look for the pattern, not just the latest decision
If you have changed your mind once, there may be absolutely nothing interesting to investigate.
If you keep finding yourself in the same situation, there probably is.
Perhaps you repeatedly commit to things and immediately want out.
Perhaps you are certain until somebody questions you.
Perhaps you make decisions when you are under pressure simply because making a decision gives you temporary relief.
Perhaps you keep abandoning things before there is enough evidence to judge them.
Perhaps you know very quickly that something is wrong but spend months talking yourself back into it.
Perhaps every new strategy looks like the answer until it becomes familiar enough to feel like work.
Those patterns tell us far more than one isolated decision.
And once you can see the pattern, you can start separating the current business problem from the way you habitually respond to business problems.
Give decisions a reason to reopen
One practical thing you can do without knowing anything about Human Design is decide what would constitute a legitimate reason to revisit a decision.
Suppose you decide to sell one particular offer for the next three months.
What would justify changing that decision?
No enquiries after a certain amount of promotion?
Consistent feedback that the proposition is unclear?
Evidence that the numbers do not work?
Discovering that delivery takes twice as long as expected?
Those are useful pieces of information.
Seeing somebody on LinkedIn announce that they made £40,000 from a completely different business model probably isn’t.
When you know what evidence would justify reconsideration, you have something to compare the doubt against.
Has the situation changed?
Have I learned something?
Or am I simply uncomfortable today?
That does not mean you can never change your mind without producing a spreadsheet of evidence. It means the decision has some structure around it instead of being renegotiated every time your confidence fluctuates.
A good business decision does not guarantee a comfortable business
I think this catches people out.
We sometimes judge decisions retrospectively by how easy they made things.
But good decisions can create difficult conversations.
They can require patience.
They can mean turning down money.
They can expose a problem you were previously avoiding.
They can require you to learn something new.
They can also produce no immediate reward whatsoever.
If discomfort automatically becomes evidence that you made the wrong decision, you will struggle to stay with anything long enough to discover what it can become.
The better question is whether the decision still makes sense given what you know now.
If it does, perhaps nothing needs changing yet.
And if it doesn’t, change it.
The aim was never to become somebody who never changes their mind.
It was to know why you are changing it.
If you have a business decision you keep reopening
This is exactly the kind of problem I work with in my Human Design Decision Audit.
You bring me one real business decision, recurring pattern or issue that you keep going round in circles with.
I look at the relevant parts of your Human Design alongside the actual business context, rather than giving you a general reading of your chart. You receive a focused written analysis, practical interpretation and a 60-minute Telegram Q&A afterwards.
The Human Design Decision Audit is £197.
Read more about the Human Design Decision Audit: